Hi Tammy! Welcome to SpiritKeep! We are glad to have you here. =)
I think that everyone else has just about nailed the explanation of what is happening to you in your dreams, etc. I think you have a special gift of psychic ability, and I would suggest that you pay attention to it, and work with it, and it will grow more meaningful and manageable for you as time goes on. Having precognition about future events can be useful. It can help us to avoid some things that could cause a problem in our waking lives.
I recall a time when my son and I had the same dream, on the same night, about our family vehicle being stolen from a parking lot that was about a mile or so from our home. We dreamed of the very same things, and about being parked in a certain area under a certain light pole, and the vehicle was stolen while we were in the store. We even dreamed of talking to our insurance agent about it. It was so real to me, I actually got up in the middle of the night and looked out in the driveway to see if the Bronco was still there. It was there. But, we NEVER went into that parking lot after that. Our vehicle was never stolen. Did we circumvent a theft by paying attention to our dream??? Who can say??? But, we utilized the warning, and took heed. Maybe it did keep our vehicle from being stolen. I wouldn't want to say that it did or didn't. Judge for yourselves. =)
azspirit