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My dear husband brought something to my attention this morning.
I was sitting at the computer desk weighing the pups (usual morning routine now! :lol: ) and Tim looks at me with the strangest look on his face and says "Did you buy a new bulb for that light?" I said "No why?" He says "Well hellooooo? 2 days ago while we were looking at the houses the agent sent us on the computer, don't you remember it busted?"
Well I'll be darned! I had completely forgotten about that. Tim had joked about the angry ghost being his father wanting us out of this house as our little ones are ill here... What would you call it? Coincidence that the light busted while we were looking at houses? Was it a sign?
The only update to what we found in the papers from the mine are panphlets of flat headstones and an invoice that states that workman's compensation paid $400 to Tim's mother to have a stone put where Mike is burried.... HE DOESN'T HAVE A STONE and we've never bought one because we can't afford it now! $400 in 1969 could've bought a VERY nice headstone but she didn't buy one for her late husband. Don't know why but don't want to suspect why from what Tim's said about how she was when he was younger.
Anyways, all this to say that Tim's really starting to understand that something is definitely manifesting here, with us.
Nancy
[ April 23, 2002: Message edited by: Mama_BearX2 ]
I was sitting at the computer desk weighing the pups (usual morning routine now! :lol: ) and Tim looks at me with the strangest look on his face and says "Did you buy a new bulb for that light?" I said "No why?" He says "Well hellooooo? 2 days ago while we were looking at the houses the agent sent us on the computer, don't you remember it busted?"
Well I'll be darned! I had completely forgotten about that. Tim had joked about the angry ghost being his father wanting us out of this house as our little ones are ill here... What would you call it? Coincidence that the light busted while we were looking at houses? Was it a sign?
The only update to what we found in the papers from the mine are panphlets of flat headstones and an invoice that states that workman's compensation paid $400 to Tim's mother to have a stone put where Mike is burried.... HE DOESN'T HAVE A STONE and we've never bought one because we can't afford it now! $400 in 1969 could've bought a VERY nice headstone but she didn't buy one for her late husband. Don't know why but don't want to suspect why from what Tim's said about how she was when he was younger.
Anyways, all this to say that Tim's really starting to understand that something is definitely manifesting here, with us.
Nancy
[ April 23, 2002: Message edited by: Mama_BearX2 ]
His grave is marked now (as of the last 4 and 1/2 yrs) with some tulips and 2 cedar trees that are managing to survive...
When we wanted to know where to find his grave, we asked Tim's mother. She told us that he was burried in a graveyard on Lorne St so we would take the 2 mile walk there everyday with baby Tina in the stroller and walked back everyday unsuccessful... We never found a stone with his name on it...
Turns out, Tim spoke to his mother's brother (which is strange that he would know more) and he told Tim "What are you doing looking on Lorne? He's burried at Park Lawn Cemetary!" So once again, we walked and walked... Tim went by himself one day and got the keeper to check the records and brought Tim to the plot... There was nothing at all... The only thing Tim and I noticed is that the way the grass was it formed a distinct letter T How nice huh? =O!
When we confronted Audrey (Tim's mother) about the fact that he had no stone, she got extremally defensive and said she didn't want to talk about it that it was none of my business and that was that.
Hopefully by next spring, we'll be able to buy him something nice like "Beloved Father and Guardian Angel" or something like that... I really think that he deserves it!
Nancy
When we wanted to know where to find his grave, we asked Tim's mother. She told us that he was burried in a graveyard on Lorne St so we would take the 2 mile walk there everyday with baby Tina in the stroller and walked back everyday unsuccessful... We never found a stone with his name on it...
Turns out, Tim spoke to his mother's brother (which is strange that he would know more) and he told Tim "What are you doing looking on Lorne? He's burried at Park Lawn Cemetary!" So once again, we walked and walked... Tim went by himself one day and got the keeper to check the records and brought Tim to the plot... There was nothing at all... The only thing Tim and I noticed is that the way the grass was it formed a distinct letter T How nice huh? =O!
When we confronted Audrey (Tim's mother) about the fact that he had no stone, she got extremally defensive and said she didn't want to talk about it that it was none of my business and that was that.
Hopefully by next spring, we'll be able to buy him something nice like "Beloved Father and Guardian Angel" or something like that... I really think that he deserves it!
Nancy
Oh that's sad. To not have a marker on the grave. No wonder he is trying to contact you. For some reason spirits can be very persistant with things like that. I don't know why, but they want their bodies found it seems. It so nice that you took the time and effort to find his grave and are going to have it marked. Are you absolutely sure it's his grave? It would be bad to mark the wrong one.
I am so glad that you found his grave, but you are so smart to double check it first.... ya could make a female spirit a bit irate by placing a 'beloved father' marker on HER grave!!! YIKES!
Anyway, I hope that the closure on this will help to settle things down for you.
Blessings,
azspirit
Anyway, I hope that the closure on this will help to settle things down for you.
Blessings,
azspirit
Maybe this is what he's trying to tell you guys. =O Tim didn't know this until you found the grave? Was Tim around his dad very much during life? I get the feeling that no he was not. It's very curious why his mother never bought a headstone for dad. ='(
I worry that his mom is so defensive about the subject and didn't even give the correct info on where dad was buried. Proceed carefully!
Kell
I worry that his mom is so defensive about the subject and didn't even give the correct info on where dad was buried. Proceed carefully!
Kell
Kell, he didn't have to oppurtunity to be with his father. Michael died when Tim was only 8 mths old. Tim was his only child! It breaks my heart ... I wish things would've been different for both of them but that's meddling in fate now isn't it?
Nancy
Nancy