Somehow, I am not getting the feeling that it was a poltergiest. But, it does seem that there is a spirit that is trying to get your attention. Maybe if you just acknowledge it, and ask it not to mess with things in your house. Try it, and see what happens. If that doesn't work, maybe try smudging the house, to clear out any negative spirits. Let us know how it goes!
I'm sorry that your date was a bummer. You really deserve a better date!! These guys must be blind to not see what a great lady you are! Your spirit is as beautiful as your lovely face! That's the truth!!! Well, they say ya gotta kiss alotta toads to find the handsome prince.
I am sorry that this date was another one. Keep a positive attitude, and that special guy will have to come along.
=D
azspirit