Skyla, it sure sounds like a case of reincarnation, I would say a young sailor's wife, or a woman who has lost her child to the sea? Does the area in which the dream takes place look familiar?
It also very well could be some type of message. Maybe the name you mentioned is not that of the woman you are seeing, but someone associated with her? A friend, relative, or even someone she didn't like very much?
I know this sounds a little far fetched, but have you acquired any antiques, jewelry, etc... in recent months? Anything in your house that might be from that era? I collect antiques, and antique jewelry, and I've had a few experiences of really getting strong "vibes" out of some of the pieces, including some odd dreams.