It is kinda hard to be really sweet, and then tell her not to follow you when you move. But, you don't want her to come with you! Maybe she needs to be encouraged to go towards the Light, and that there are others there who love her and are waiting for her. Maybe that would help?? I really hope so, since she has been such a nuisance!! Keep us posted, when you have time. =)
Blessings and hugs,
Mare