I am trying to find some advice about obe, I have never had one, I am empath, sometimes I trance when someone is coming on strong, but never left this shell to my knowledge. I have been corosponding with someone, and he blocks me very well, I get only one feeling from him, and it is something out of my realm, as I have never felt this before. As I was attempting to write this person the other night to end contact with them, as I feel it is not safe, I became light headed and had to go to bed, as I was passing out, a large dark shadow moved into my room and stood over me, that is all I remember. The next morning I felt like I had a hangover and felt very bruised and battered. So I guess my question is does anyone know if someone projects themselves to you can they physically harm you? A little background, this person is 4000 miles away from me, and I did not go anywhere where someone could have slipped me anything, and I do not drink. Okay, now that you all know I am completely off my rocker, can you give me any info on this, even see a shrink would be helpful here. ;-) Thanks in advance.

Loopy

Ok, I'm off my rocker too then! :lol:
Don't think that way,.. I believe very much that someone can have psychic effects on another, like you mentioned, he blocks you right? You mean psychic and spiritually?
I have an experience eerily very similar to yours. I new someone in the past, met him through my cousin and thought he was mysterious, got to know him through letters as he lives far away as well (well, one province away)
Anyway, to try to make a long story short, when I recieved what would be the last letter, I opened it and before even beginning to read it, I felt sick to my stomach, a physical ailment that could have been blamed on lunch but it was weirder than that...
Anyways, I prayed and prayed because I felt strange and in no way I'd ever felt, AFRAID almost.
I wrote him back without even reading his letter to say that I was with someone, bla bla bla. Never heard from this guy again and you know, never had that almost "evil" feeling again, like someone was about to hurt me.
I did not feel battered in the morning though and did not see anything/anyone.
Did you cut off the ties with him? I mean finish writing? (or typing)?
Pray for protection and you will get it! Good wins over evil and if this person is out to hurt you, let him know, spiritually that you are not going to allow him too... Your spirit guide will protect you and you will be strong and resilient to his attempts.
Good luck with this.

Thank you, at least if I am nuts I am not alone. And no I did not finish this with him. Whenever I do I feel physically ill, tried again last night and started to faint. Rushing wind sound in my ears, and had to put my head between my knees. When I turned off the mail program, I was fine. What scares me is I felt "violated" you know what I mean. And believe me I have no one here who could do that. That is what makes me feel crazy. About how he blocks me, well I can feel people's emotions, very strongly, to the extent that it can actually alter my mood. The only thing I get from him is something close to love, but it isn't, and the rest is blank. The closest I got was saying he had not let go of a recent loss, but I was feeling the loss through someone else, not him. I have never met or talked to anyone able to block like this. Okay, enough. Sorry, I tend to go on and on. Thank you for that. Made me feel a little less crazy. =D btw I had a friend try to read him and she got a blank too!!!

You know what Loopy, I doubt it's him doing the blocking. I think, and forgive me for sounding crazier, it's the loss you've mentioned. Maybe someone doesn't want him to connect and is the culprit for the blocking and the feeling you had of being violated.
Trust me, you are definitely not alone! :lol:

Thanks, you know what, I just noticed where you are from, and he is near you, makes me very freaked out right now. =O! but thanks again. I will not feel so alone, out here in la la land. =D

Oh, Loopy!!! I find this very frightening, and I am getting some kind of feeling about this person, just reading your posts. I can't exactly identify it, but it feels bad... makes me uncomfortable in my gut, like this guy is not just someone who has suffered a loss, but is just pure evil. This is probably why he is blocking you so well. That black entity sounds like a visit from the 'Dark Man' to me. Did you feel like you were unable to move when he was there? Did you feel an intense evil from him?
This really doesn't sound like an OBE to me, or at least it isn't anything like the OBE's I have had, which were actually pleasant. I knew when I left my body, and I knew when I returned. I also remembered what I did and where I was during that time.
If we can of any more help, please let us know, either here, or via e-mail or PM.

Blessings to you, Loopy, and I will keep you in my prayers and send much white light to protect you from this entity.

Hugs,
Mare

Loopy, that had to be a frightening experience! My husband has told me that he experienced something similar to what happened to you, and I've thought about the "Dark Man" phenomenon also.
As for the fellow you mentioned, I got some of the same impressions Mare got. I'm going to venture out on a limb and ask if he may have some sort of odd obsessive behaviors? Given the physical distance between you, I believe you are safe, but keep your guard up, ok?
As far blocking some of this stuff out, I don't know what to tell you there. I suggest getting to know others well with this gift and talking to them about it. Good luck! =)

Thank you all so much for the advice. I am working on the blocking and hopefully the couple of weeks I will be off-line will make him lose interest in me. It was very frightening and all I can say, is boy howdy, I hope this is not something that is going to happen again. I think I really would lose it then. I will look into the dark man thing. As I am going to have some down time and time to reflect on this and build my strengh back up. (((HUGS))) and thanks to all. =D

Loopy, I am gonna miss you shile you are offline!!! I hope everything is OK! I will keep you in my prayers, and I'll be really glad when you are back with us again! Hugs, Sweetie!!

azspirit

Nope... this guy doesn't seem good to me. Try to distance yourself from him if you're not able to write to him and tell him to get lost. Like you said, maybe being offline for awhile will help. ;-) If he continues to try and contact you, block his emails or something!

I've had experience with the Dark Man, so if you need to compare notes, let me know. =D

Good luck, loopy!
Kell

Hey I made it back, I am fine, and I feel better about this little problem. I may have broken the pattern with him, just by not being available. I would like to hear your experiences with this though Kell, cause I know I wasn't dreaming. And the feelings I had were not just feelings, I had real physical symptoms, which I can not discuss here. My e-mail is in my bio at dh if you feel like talking about it. =D Thanks all, and I am so glad to be back....

Hi Loopy, We all fell off our rockers long ago! =) =) =)
Has something similar happened to you before? Or before with this man?
It may not be this man that is doing it. When I had opened myself empathically a while back I didn't think about protecting myself. I just wanted to open up and feel for everyone. I found myself drawn out and tired alot. I started getting lots of activity in my apartment.
It is possible that while you're opening up to him and others, you are attracting a bad spirit from somewhere closer. You're like a candle in a dark room. I used to see a lot of shadowlike things moving around me. I had to close myself off some and only reopen slowly when I am able to protect myself.
When I read your post, to me if felt like this thing was something different than this guy. I don't see this guy as a saint either and I feel some sort of connection but it just may be the connection that it happened while you were connecting with him.
It sounds like something drained your energy. What is commonly referred to as an energy vampire. Live people can be like this as well as spirits.
I would suggest closing off some till you can work out ways to protect yourself. Protect yourself as best as you can and open up when you can safely do so.
That's my two cents.

thanks for the advice, I wish I knew how to shut it off or shut it out. I do attract a lot of things, mainly because I think they know I can and do feel them. My problem is I have denied feeling anything, and denied knowing anything for so long that this kind of just happened without me helping or learning at all. I can not stop anything from coming in, and I am really good at absorbing all the stuff around me, good and bad, and bouncing it back. Makes life hell for hubby sometimes. I have never felt like this before meeting this particular man. I do know I have visitors all the time, but they mostly leave me alone. At least physically, this was something so bizarre to me. I mean the physical pain and tiredness, but other outward signs of things that may have happened. Kinda like someone slipped me a roofie or something. Anyway, today I let in some deep nasty depression so I am going to go hide somewhere for a while. Thanks for the help all. =D