You may have seen this posted on another board, but I am really in need of some opinions on this. I can fully understand if nobody wants to try and help me understand this. It is kind of disturbing (at least to me it is). A few years ago for about 3 months I started having 'visions' and dreams about a little girl. I could also sometimes feel what seemed to be her presence. I would get a picture of her in my minds eye. She was about 3-4 years old with blond hair and wearing a white nightgown. It felt like she was waiting for something (me?). I also got the impression that she was my daughter which never made sense because me and my wife (now ex), did not have any children. Well, about a week ago it has started happening again except that I notice her a LOT more strongly than before. It is an almost constant and disturbing distraction. It doesn't feel like she is a ghost but more like she is in some other place (the other side?) trying to reach through and get my attention. It seems almost as she is looking at a see through curtain at me. There seems to be a sense of urgency to her that was never there before. I have absolutely no idea what to make of this. I've tried meditating to try and get through but it hasn't worked so far. If anyone has any ideas or can maybe help me to understand what is going on, I would really appreciate hearing from you. Please.

[ November 25, 2002, 01:28 PM: Message edited by: Snoopy ]

Hello Snoopy and Welcome!

Your dream is not disturbing to me at all. I'm getting a sense that this little girl you speak of may be a child from a past life and she may now be a spirit guide of yours.

Most often, spirit guides appear to us in dreams to help us through difficult times such as stress, a death in the family, etc..... They aren't here to hurt us, but rather to guide us. They don't speak to us and it's frustrasting as all get out. However; it is up to us to figure out why they are appearing in our dream(s).

I do think you're meditating too hard. Try to step back and relax.I realize it's frustrating, but please, try to relax. Read a book, take a hot, relaxing bath, whatever makes you feel most comfortable.... It's often when we do that, that the answer will appear. And when it does, it's as though "Oh, I get it now!".

Good Luck! And please let us know how it all turns out.

Mary

Hi Snoopy

Mary has some great advice and I hope you give it a try! It would drive me crazy as well, but maybe some "chilling out" time will help make things more clear for you. Keep in touch and let us know if anything else becomes clear to you!

I'm thinking along the same lines as Mary. This may be someone from a former life showing up. Maybe a soul waiting to be reborn at some point in the future? It would drive me nuts trying to figure it out, but like the others said, you may just be trying too hard. Taking a break from meditating on it may cause the answer to smack you right between the eyes. Sometimes when we think so hard on something, we miss the obvious. Sounds intriguing! Keep us up to date on this!

Snoopy,
It could be your child waiting to be born & just waiting on you to decide the time is right.
I saw a story like this, I think it was on Unsolved Mysteries.
A woman was advised that she shouldn't have any more children, that it would probably be fatal to her. She was suppose to have a hysterectomy. While trying to decide what to do, She kept having visions of a little boy 3 or 4 years old. The visions had gotten so strong that she thought it was one of her children in the kitchen with her.
She decided not to have the operation. As it turned out, She did have anoter child, a boy. He looked exactly like the one she'd visioned. Just another senario to consider,
Tess

Hi Snoopy,

Another thing you might try is, before you fall asleep at night, tell yourself that you want to communicate with this little girl and tell yourself that you'll be able to do it, should she appear in your dream. Sometimes it's just a mental block we have and to overcome it, it helps to tell yourself that you *can* do it.

I also think the others are right in suggesting that you relax and not to try to hard. Let it come to you. If it's supposed to, it will.

How is your father? I hope he's doing well..

Kell

Thank you for the advice everyone. Seriously, a big kiss to all of you. Thanks for remembering my dad he is doing quite well. I hadn't thought of trying to reach that little girl in a dream, I think I am going try contacting her when I am asleep tonight. I hope it works. I'll post a reply should I get anything because apparently she wants me to get whatever the message is pretty badly. Thanks again!

Hi there everybody. I have an update on my situation but I am not sure if I really understand or accept what I received. I tried to relax and get through to the little girl in a dream, but every time I thought it was about to happen something would wake me up. Anyway, today I meditated like I always do except I decided to 'bliss out' and de-stress. That's when things started coming to me. Please bear with me, I am still sorting this out myself. The girl I have been sensing was supposed to be/may still be? my daughter. Me and my ex were supposed to have had her when we were married but it seems like the girl saw that it was not a good idea and stayed where she was. I could have been a Dad. That I think is why I felt her around the first time. She must have been checking us out. Now, she is here because she wants me to get in touch with my ex wife because my ex is going through a difficult time and needs someone who understands her to be there for her. Even after my divorce I can still sense how my ex is doing and I know she is having problems with her current marriage even though I haven't talked to her in quite a while. I don't know why I would be the person for this job. To be honest I don't think I am strong enough of a person to be there for her. I've been divorced for 2 1/2 years but the hurt is still fresh. I know my ex is in need of someone to talk to and be there for her but I have no idea what I would say to her. Not to mention it will be even more difficult to see her than before knowing what I know now about the girl that could have been our daughter. I was shown that she could still come through and that a reconciliation with my ex is possible but I don't see how right now. Sorry this is so long I just needed to get all of this out. Thanks for taking the time to read this.