the first ghost I ever saw was at HIS house.
I was wide awake, had nothing to drink...
It was visible for a good 10 seconds before fading away. Human form, but no features...
Couldn't tell if it was male or female.

Help for the novice?

THANK YOU

Hi Wendy Sue!
Well he may not beleive now, but my husband didn't either. After a few experiences and a few years he now beleives anything and everything. He said, laughingly, that "I gave him a whole new outlook on life!"
I am not a pro at this but have been sensitive ever since I can remember, so it is normal for me. I am sure alot of folks can lead you to some reading references and maybe you and your boyfriend can have some fun researching his home?
Take care!
Piglet

Wendy Sue, had you been alseep prior to seeing this - did it wake you? Was it just a solid black silhouette?

Kell

I am still figuring all this fun stuff out(and it IS fun!)

It was Chistmas and I was a nervous wreck because I was going to Springfield Illinois to meet my boyfriend's family for the first time.There would be no sleep for your's truly.
The room was partially lit as I scanned the room waiting for sunrise, when see this human form standing on my side of the bed.It was bent over as if to get a closer look at us.Probably wondering what kind of tramp I was, sleeping with a man without the benefit of marriage! lol...Could only make out a human form.No features. The house is 20 years old with no notable history. It's a condo in a college town.

Be well, Piglet and Kel!
Thanks for your help.
Wendy Sue