ok i need some big help here...my girlfriend just recently has been seein ghosts in the form of a man...he hasnt hurt her but she keeps gettin really really freaked out she hasnt slept in 3 days, she keeps seeing a man run across her living room, a man standing in her doorway lookin in her room but not at her...we were walkin down the road and she saw him at different spots...then we got in my car before i left and she saw him down the road...i didnt see him so i turned on my high beams and she still saw it but not any better...i really want to help her but i dont know what to do...i hear ghosts come after a certain person because they believe they can help them, because they look like somebody or they want to hurt but it doesnt seem violent because it probably would have done something violent by now...can somebody please help me with this i will be very thankful if you do

plus i was just on the phone with her and she could hear me but i couldnt hear her and all i heard was static...then the phone hung up and i kept trying to call her and she called me right back hysterically crying...she told me as soon as the phone got disconnected her sister's radio alarm clock turned on...her alarm was set for 5:35AM...not midnight!...i heard it in the backround too...her dogs were barking and her spotlight to her driveway went on...i dunno whats goin on with her and i really want some help...somebody please help please...

OH, it seems like you're girlfriend really needs some help with this. I'm afraid I'm not very accustomed to ghosts either, but I'm sure you'll get some tips from the people here who have more experience in the field. The only tip I can give is you should ask your girlfriend about what she's been dreaming since this whole thing started, sometimes I think it's easier for spirits/ghosts to give us messages through dreams than in the day, since we're much more open in our sleep. Talk through her dreams carefully, something might pop up that she had forgotten, or that you guys hadn't thought of before. Pay attention to symbols, as well as things that are connected to certain places or people, it could give you clues as to what you're dealing with.

But if this thing doesn't stop I think you should definately go and see someone, either a psychic or someone who reads tarot or something. But make sure the person knows what she's talking about, many in that business are simply people who are good at "reading" you the normal way...

This sounds a bit strange, I know, and it's probably nothing, but... As I was writing this there was a sudden thump coming from my bathtub, as if a cat or something had jumped in. But I have clear vision of the bathtub and there was definately nothing/noone in there. So just a thouhgt...Does a bathtub ot bathroom mean anything to you? I know it sounds silly, but hey, you never know.

I really wish you good luck on this, and I hope your girlfriend will be allright. If all else failes, perhaps she could try and talk to the ghost?

hugs
/wilhelmina