My problem with trying to spend less time with this person is, she works with me. She is 2 desks down from me. I think me being that far away is better than it was, but now she is draining the co-worker who sits between us, who happens to be one of my very close friends. I am at a lose. I have been meditating alot lately and it seems to help, but like I said, I am a bit worried about my friend who is being drained now.