I don't know what most of you
will think or say about this but
these things can be very true.

A ghost can be attached to you when you
show great love or affection for that someone
who has passed on. Some people like to visit gravyards and plant flowers or say blessings to all.

Even to keep a certain picture of someone
(even if you never knew them in person)

I have kept a picture of a girl who
has died a few years ago.

I never met her before but she was good friends with people I know
Anyway her family made her a website
dedicated to her which is very nice.

One night when I was going to bed
I felt as if someone or something was
around me. I was not affraid but I felt like
there was so much love around me.
My body was relaxed and I felt nice and warm in my bed.
On my pillow I felt a little breeze of cool air
just for a few seconds then after that mabey it was just my imagination but a could swear I have seen small bright lights yellow color that appeared for 3 seconds after that I fell asleep

In one of my dreams that girl was there
smiling at me and I remember saying that
she will always be remembered by her family & friends. I heard a voice after that saying "you are protected". then I woke up

since then things have been okay
and that's all I goto say about that.

Has anyone else have had an experience like this?

[ April 09, 2005, 05:51 AM: Message edited by: tigercat ]

Tigercat, I can't say I've ever had an experience quite like that. However, while visiting cemeteries, old buildings and various things, I have picked up on emotions and often felt a sense of peace and comfort at some of these places. At one particular family cemetery, a relative and I were visiting some of the graves and wandered into another area. We came upon the grave of an elderly couple and both of us felt a lot of good, positive energy, kinda like a "spiritual hug". We later found out that the elderly couple buried there had been friends of our family. Perhaps this was their way of greeting the younger generation of people they had loved and enjoyed their company during their lifetime.

I personally believe that some spirits are able to communicate with others who are for lack of a better term, "on their wavelength." Perhaps the living person has a similar personality as the spirit did during their lifetime and that makes it easier for some form of communication.

What you experienced may have been due to your emotional attachment to this young woman who passed on, and because of that, her spirit has been able to communicate with you.

I would agree with you on this

I would just like to also add that
one winter night me and a friend were
coming back from a pub bar so we decided to take
a short cut through a gravyard

that night was really cold

after coming out of the gravyard
we did not at all feel cold
I felt warm as we were walking out!

Goes to show they like when you visit

[ April 09, 2005, 09:50 AM: Message edited by: tigercat ]

Hi tigercat:

I've never had quite that type of experience, but I have had dream visitations from a close friend who passed recently. I was wondering, since I note that you didn't know this girl... what prompted you to keep a pic of her and why the emotional attachment? Perhaps, she feels you are more open to her than others who may have been going through the grieving process. The dream does sound like a visitation from the girl. Very interesting situation, not sure I would call it love with a ghost. More than likely she did cross over and is in spiritual form, rather than trapped here and unable to move on as is the case with ghosts. You are friends with the people who knew and loved her, and having her picture there, I would think this was visitation for whatever reason.

I firmly believe that spirits are with us every day! And yes, I've had the experience of the small, bright lights appearing. They pulled themselves together for only a few seconds, but in that short period of time I was able to see the face of my father. Afterwards, I felt no fear, just a great sense of calm...then I heard by father's voice in my head saying "You're a good daughter". It was a period of great stress in my life and I think he just wanted me to know that everything was going to be ok.