Hi! I used to be a member on here several months ago & got rid of my email address, lost my password, etc. so anyway, I just re-registered & would love it if someone could tell me who, if anyone, does readings, like to connect with a loved one who has passed? Thanks!

Hi Kris,

I do Tarot, etc., but it's casual and not very often these days. Also, I'm not in the greatest frame of mind right now to help. Perhaps in a few days, or maybe someone else will be able to help.

Good luck,
Kell

P.S. Is it your brother who has passed? Or a male figure of similar status...?

[ December 26, 2006, 11:24 PM: Message edited by: KellKell ]

No, it isn't my brother, I have no brothers...=} Its actually my niece Angie. You may or may not remember me, but I used to be on here alot, actually it was right after my niece passed away in March of 2005 that I was told about the site...since then I have gotten rid of the email address I used & forgot my password, so thats why I had to register again. I've really missed being on here though, I met alot of terrific people that really helped me during such a hard time. I'm so hoping that someone can connect with her again for me. We were so close & I'm still having a very hard time dealing with her death, so if anyone feels drawn to contacting her I would really appreciate it. Thanks so much! Kris

Kris, this is so weird, I was actually thinking of you yesterday. I must be psychic.
Seriously, dear, it is good to hear from you! I'll try to get in touch with you in the next few days.
(((((hugs)))))

OMG! I can't believe its YOU! =} How the heck are you? And your baby girl...? (Brianna, right? I'm terrible with names! lol) Anyway, yes I would love to talk to you....I've thought about you often since we lost touch. I have been through alot since we last spoke, so we have alot to catch up on! Write when you can...love, Kris

Welcome back, KrisT, and we are glad to see you here again! I am glad that you and Carrie have made contact again, as it is obvious that you have lost touch! =)

I send you my love and hope you can find the answers you need about your neice! I remember you, too!

Mare

Wow, thanks! =} I was afraid noone would remember me, because before I think I used my 'proper' name (or whatever its called...lol) "Clarissa", but I guess since I wrote so much about Angie before I'm hard to forget..lol I don't know, I thought it was suppose to get easier as time goes on, but it seems as though it was yesterday that I was told about her passing, & it is still so hard to accept. Anyway, I'm glad to be back! YIPEEEE! =} (((HUGS))) to you all! Kris

Hi, I am so very sorry for your loss! I am also a bit surprised and I am curious to know why you think that you need someone else's help to reconnect with your friend who passed? Do you believe that you cannot connect to her yourself or that you must be psychic or "gifted' to do so? Do you think perhaps, it your own mourning deadening your psychic/spiritual ability to make contact with her yourself? I mean there is nothing wrong with asking for help, shoot...I am all for it, but do you know that you are a spiritual being too and have the same gifts and abilties available to you as well? Do you keep a picture of your friend, do you find some alone time and talk with her, opening your mind to what she may have to say? I know a lot of people think that you must be psychic or a witch or something to communicate with the dead, but I don't personally believe that. Your love for this friend, the memories, and the times you spent together connects you to her spiritually and it is those memories and that love that will bridge the gap in that connection that you now feel is missing. It is a passing thing to feel disconnected because your physical body continues to exist and hers does not, that is simply a mental/emotional block, in the spiritual realm time and space does not exist as we usually understand it and this is how I know that, she is near you a lot these days. Like I mentioned, grief has a habit of deadening psychism, so that may be why you do not pick up on her presence so readily. Certainly though, I believe you can, and I wish you the best as you re-discover your mutual connection. I will be sending white light and prayers. Again, I am sorry for your loss!Also, I may be way off on this one, but did the two of you have a running joke between you about a pink dress? I keep seeing that.

most sincerely,
Ravenheart

[ December 28, 2006, 03:44 AM: Message edited by: Ravenheart ]

Thanks for caring...=} I do agree with what you said about me thinking I'm not capable of connecting with her. I mean, I do think I get signs from her, but to be honest, I have had SO much going on in my life lately that I'm sure I have overlooked alot of the signs she has sent me. I really wish I could develop my own psychic abilities, because I know I have them to some extent...I have had 'dreams' since I was young, that have had a way of 'happening' or 'coming true' usually the next day, so I know I have it in me, I would just LOVE to be able to communicate with her directly, so if you or anyone has any suggestions for me & how I need to go about developing my abilities, I would certainly appreciate any help you can offer! =} Thanks in advance, Kris

I could cast a circle that would allow you to communicate with her directly, but you would need to be present and it requires the use of witchcraft. There are other ways of doing this yourself and it calls for you to visit her gravesite or more preferably, a place where you have shared happy memories with her and simply talk to her. There is no magic in the world like belief in your own abilties. She is not far away in some "heaven", the spirit world is interconnected to ours and only a viel divides the two. But since you are busy and obviously still grieving for your friend, I will step aside and allow someone more experienced with contacting the corporally challenged, help you out. In fact, I will seek such a person out for you, in hopes that I can help.

sincerely,
Ravenheart

Ravenheart, you have no idea how much this means to me...Angie was my niece, & also my best friend in the world. My mom & dad practically raised her, so she grew up in our home really. She was as much like a sister to me as my own sisters are, we were together all the time, & it was me she went to when she had problems. Not a day went by that we didn't at least talk on the phone, so I'm sure you can understand the loss I'm feeling, Any help I can get in learning how to connect with her would be so helpful in getting me on the road to at least 'some' closure. I know time is suppose to heal all wounds but this is one wound I'm not sure will EVER get any better...Thank you again for what you are trying to do for me! (((hugs))) Kris

Well, it seems that only time or the Universe itself will heal some wounds, and I speak from experience. Spiritual type wounds can take a long time to heal and some remain as a testiment to the capacity we have for love and this may be the case for you, as it is for me. The contact person I was seeking is the official psychic of another message board and I cannot contact her due to computer glitches with the Invision Power Board they use. I was going to ask that she help you and wave any usual fee that she may charge, but I am being delayed in speaking with her. I will cntinue to try and if I can't reach her today, I will send you information to contact her yourself via PM. I hope this helps, I totally empathize with the pain you must be feeling, sound like the relationship, as well as the two of you, are very special. (Notice I said, "are" and not "was")!

hugs,
Ravenheart

[ December 30, 2006, 10:46 AM: Message edited by: Ravenheart ]

OMG, thank you so much..! If you can't contact her, just let me know & I will try to contact her myself. Yes, our relationship was very special, she was, as I said, as much like a sister to me as my own sisters. We had a relationship that was so special, I mean we did everything together, & especially the last few years of her life she had alot of problems, & it was always me she turned to. Anyway, I know you must be very busy, so I won't keep babbling. Just know that what you are doing for me is very much appreciated!!! Much love, Kris

KrisT,

You can contact Amethyst through the message board at GhostStudy.com, she is the official Psychic there and may or may not wave her usual fees, I can make no gaurentees with that, but you can tell her that Ravenheart sent you. However, I have also contacted a psychic medium by the name of William Constantine to see if he might also be of assistance to you (free of charge). I am awaiting his reply.
You are also welcome for the help, I just hope that it turns out to be that someone can help you through this difficult time.

Ravenheart

All I can say is that it takes a special person to go out of their way to help someone that they don't even know, & I want you to know how much this means to me. It will be 2 years since we lost Angie, & although I have tried to deal with it as best I could, it is still very fresh. I hope I can get the help I need so I can go on with my life & try to at least have some sort of closure. I don't know how to explain the way I feel other than its like I haven't "allowed" myself to fully believe that she is gone, like it I don't GO to her grave, & I don't SEE her headstone, somehow it doesn't seem as "real"...like my mind is blocking that part somehow & I know that is unhealthy for me, I KNOW it is, but I can't help it, so I really hope someone can help me along this very difficult journey. And just knowing that there are people like yourself out there who really do care certainly is a start...I'll be waiting to hear from you, & I will contact Amethyst & let you know how that goes...Take care & god bless! Kris

Thank you KrisT,

I let Amethyst, (the psychic at ghoststudy.com) know that you would be contacting her, so please talk with her. If she wants to charge you a fee, we can find someone else to help.

You know, I lost my grandmother back in the early 80's and I was very close to her. So close, in fact that, I felt I couldn't let her go. One night, many years later, she came to me in a dream. She explained to me that she was unable to move on, because I was holding on so tight and that I needed to let her go. So she stayed to help me...we sat and talked and laughed and cried...then, when she got up and began to slowly walk away from me, I could hear the Phil Collins version of the song, "Groovy Kind of Love".

"wouldn't you agree...
baby, you and me,
have a groovy kind of love"

OK, I am getting all misty over here now. Well anyway, like I think I said before, the depth of your sorrow and loss are only matched by the depth of the love the two of you shared. When I finally let go of my grandmother, I felt her spirit sink down into my soul and I knew she would be a part of me forever...this is the power of love and the same will happen for you!!!

I heard a man ask someone the other day, "Why do we have to die?" and the other person answered, "To make life important!" Isn"t that the Bomb? I believe this will eventually work out for you, but some wounds only time and the universe can fix, still, you'll get there. Sometimes we have to "fake it till we make it", but I will be here for you as your friend, so no worries, Ok?

Ravenheart

Hey! I left Amethyst a message on the board, but haven't heard back from her yet. I'll be sure to let you know when I do...and thanks again for all you're doing for me, it really means alot! =} You mentioned the dream you had about your grandmother...I had a dream about Angie just a couple of months or so after she passed & it was as if she was right there with me...all she said was "Tommy told me not to be afraid, he'd be there to meet me..." Tommy is my sons father who was killed in a motorcycle accident in 2001, the two of them were always close when we were married, & his passing really upset her alot, so I definitely think, no, I KNOW she is in a better place than we are, its just the missing her that I can't get over, & I know I never will. I just have to somehow come to terms with the fact that she isn't with me any longer, not in the physical form anyway. And I would love SO much to be able to contact her myself...I read somewhere (maybe even on here...?) about how we can actually "go" to where they are, obviously not physically, but I guess there is some way to cross over into their dimension with our minds, & actually talk to them...that would be TOO cool! =} Don't you think...? Well, I'll be sure to let you know when I hear from Amethyst & thank you again from the bottom of my heart for taking the time to try & help me...it really means alot to me! Take care & god bless, Kris

You are, of course, most welcome. Energy never dies, it just changes form and I think it is the same for humans. I am waiting anxiously for Angie to come through as well...can hardly wait, cause I know she will!!


hugs,
Ravenheart