Damien99,
If you are trying so desperately to make a positive mark on the paranormal field, a little more tolerance of others will take you a long way. If you think belonging to TAPS gives you more credibility, you are wrong. I am sorry that the opinions and observations of others that don't carry the "TAPS stamp of approval" tend to "get under your skin". You don't have any more nor any less credibility than anyone else, in my opinion. Also, in my honest opinion, TAPS has just a little too much attitude. Less of the attitude and a little more tolerance, with a touch of seriously listening to others, may help you in ways you never dreamed of. Don't cut others' opinions down, when you haven't captured your own knowledge or opinions of the paranormal in a test tube yet, either.
Being open-minded and friendly will be much more to your credit, and the knowledge you seek depends upon what you can learn from others, as well as from your own observations. You will always meet persons who are greater or lesser than yourself. Listen to them, because even those you may feel to be dull or ignorant have their opinions, and there may be a gem of truth there, if you listen with kindness and an open mind. When you step into a room ego first, you have already blocked out what you might learn there.
So, please, let's not let a difference of opinion give you reason to speak harshly to others, and act as though you are the ONLY one with the right answers... there may be more right answers than you expect. Everyone has their own personal reality, and if you will listen respectfuly to the opinions of others, and be kinder in your responses, the reward you reap may surprise you. We have more similarities among us than differences.
Wishing you luck and success in your search for knowledge of the paranormal. =) Maybe someday, many of us will have more solid proof of what we have experienced.
Blessings in all you do,
Mare