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Hi everyone,
Well the minute we moved into this house strange things started happening. The first week I kept having dreams about a man and a women who kept telling me the house is haunted. They kept bothering my son in my dream and I started throwing things at them and I said to leave him alone.
Then my mother said she heard walking to her room at night and then the ghost pressed on her stomach. My son started seeing a man in his room and he was afriad to go to the bathroom by himself. Then when my aunt came to visit she said she was frozen for a minute in my room. She was so scared she slept with a night light because she said it was in her room every night. Then the
ghost went to my mom's room and tried to throw her out of her own bed. The next night it jumped on her bed. Then all of a sudden it all stopped and nothing happend for about a month.
Then I had another dream and the man showed me 3 crosses where they were burried which happens to be in our front yard. He also showed me that he hides in my mother's closet. Then this is where things get strange. He started bothering only my mother. He goes in her room and starts shaking her bed at night or if she takes a nap on the couch in the afternoon he will shake the couch or once he poked her in the ribs to wake her up.
This is what we have tried to get him to leave:
1.)We told him firmly that he must leave
2.)We have done cleasning twice. The first time it worked for two days. The second time it didn't work at all.
3.)We have said the rosary
4.)My mom tells him to leave everyday. She was to
tell him 3 or 4 times to stop shaking the bed.
5.)We are trying to get help from a paranornal group.But the one in our area has disbanded and the regional group is just volunteers and she is trying to find someone who lives in our area to help. It has been over a week and she has found no one yet.
Any thoughts or suggestions would be most helpful.
My mom just would like a good night sleep.
Well the minute we moved into this house strange things started happening. The first week I kept having dreams about a man and a women who kept telling me the house is haunted. They kept bothering my son in my dream and I started throwing things at them and I said to leave him alone.
Then my mother said she heard walking to her room at night and then the ghost pressed on her stomach. My son started seeing a man in his room and he was afriad to go to the bathroom by himself. Then when my aunt came to visit she said she was frozen for a minute in my room. She was so scared she slept with a night light because she said it was in her room every night. Then the
ghost went to my mom's room and tried to throw her out of her own bed. The next night it jumped on her bed. Then all of a sudden it all stopped and nothing happend for about a month.
Then I had another dream and the man showed me 3 crosses where they were burried which happens to be in our front yard. He also showed me that he hides in my mother's closet. Then this is where things get strange. He started bothering only my mother. He goes in her room and starts shaking her bed at night or if she takes a nap on the couch in the afternoon he will shake the couch or once he poked her in the ribs to wake her up.
This is what we have tried to get him to leave:
1.)We told him firmly that he must leave
2.)We have done cleasning twice. The first time it worked for two days. The second time it didn't work at all.
3.)We have said the rosary
4.)My mom tells him to leave everyday. She was to
tell him 3 or 4 times to stop shaking the bed.
5.)We are trying to get help from a paranornal group.But the one in our area has disbanded and the regional group is just volunteers and she is trying to find someone who lives in our area to help. It has been over a week and she has found no one yet.
Any thoughts or suggestions would be most helpful.
My mom just would like a good night sleep.
There's lots of stuff here on this website about hauntings. You may want to puruse through older postings.
I've found that most ghosts I had where I lived can be lived with. Telling him to leave can be a bad idea. I'm not saying you can't if the situation warrents it. But so far what you are stating and from the impression I get this guy is not a bad guy. You moved into his house (in his mind). So he's just acting out based upon what he sees. Demanding him to leave can upset him. Imagine someone moving into your house and telling you to leave. You certainly have the mosts rights here. You're alive. It's your house. And he should have moved on but didn't. But that doesn't mean you can't coexist. Many people coexist with ghosts pretty happily.
I would suggest talking to him in regard to his bad behavior. Like you would do with anyone else. Ask him to stop doing the things that upset you and your family. And chances are he's seen something that your Mom has done or said that is upsetting to him or that he didn't like. It may be that she just reminds him of someone else but ghosts do act up when they witness something they don't like.
So to sum it up talk to him. Calmly, without fear if possible, politely and ask him to not do the behaviour you don't like.
And the smudging really works best when the intent in clear in your heart and mind. I suggest do a cleansing/smudging to ask that all negative forces, anything that has harmful intent to anyone who lives here or visits here be kept away and on those of good intent be allowed in or around the house. Feel that intention during the whole smudging. I also find that standing in the center of the house letting that intention rise up and expand with your energy to engulf the whole house works pretty well to. Not to push everything out but to clean the house of negativity and negative spirits.
Sorry this is long winded. But this reflects my experiences. Ghosts are people too and act like people and deserve respect like people. As the Peace Pilgrim had proved her whole life, treating people with love and respect has a way of changing attitudes and behavior. She lived that for over 40 years walking the nation alone.
I've found that most ghosts I had where I lived can be lived with. Telling him to leave can be a bad idea. I'm not saying you can't if the situation warrents it. But so far what you are stating and from the impression I get this guy is not a bad guy. You moved into his house (in his mind). So he's just acting out based upon what he sees. Demanding him to leave can upset him. Imagine someone moving into your house and telling you to leave. You certainly have the mosts rights here. You're alive. It's your house. And he should have moved on but didn't. But that doesn't mean you can't coexist. Many people coexist with ghosts pretty happily.
I would suggest talking to him in regard to his bad behavior. Like you would do with anyone else. Ask him to stop doing the things that upset you and your family. And chances are he's seen something that your Mom has done or said that is upsetting to him or that he didn't like. It may be that she just reminds him of someone else but ghosts do act up when they witness something they don't like.
So to sum it up talk to him. Calmly, without fear if possible, politely and ask him to not do the behaviour you don't like.
And the smudging really works best when the intent in clear in your heart and mind. I suggest do a cleansing/smudging to ask that all negative forces, anything that has harmful intent to anyone who lives here or visits here be kept away and on those of good intent be allowed in or around the house. Feel that intention during the whole smudging. I also find that standing in the center of the house letting that intention rise up and expand with your energy to engulf the whole house works pretty well to. Not to push everything out but to clean the house of negativity and negative spirits.
Sorry this is long winded. But this reflects my experiences. Ghosts are people too and act like people and deserve respect like people. As the Peace Pilgrim had proved her whole life, treating people with love and respect has a way of changing attitudes and behavior. She lived that for over 40 years walking the nation alone.